certainly so

[alien's note:: this is an elaboration on the ramblings below, a conitinuation, sort of]
it comes with a sort of predetermination. a set of clear expectation. it makes it easy. it means you are not free. i cling to the labels, the catagories of society that i accept & embrace. want to make my own. already are my own. to discover there's an entire school of thought, already on your wavelength. already operating, & carving a niche for you to settle in & take a nice warm nap. we're talking safety & security. that sort of gestalt moment when everything falls into place. right before your very eyes. and it's all been done before. don't worry we're there for you, or you're all alone- which you prefer dear. it's all about you baby.
& my theory on somethings is this: the easiest way to bond with someone in an intentional or unintentional manner is to be unhappy in the same way. (whether spoken or unspoken) suffer the same trials & tribulations, share the same battle wounds. maybe that's why some marriages work. i don't know & i don't really care much about that subject. we're not really here to talk about that, you know?